Why

Why are friends and family dropping away from me?
In order to really be free, You are having to let go of everybody in your life.
People (friends and family) you had thought that cared about you, but really have their own agendas for you.
Our thoughts of need for identity and validation generate images of who are friends and we have tried to fit into our perceptions of their caring for us.
When we have finally chosen to allow our own inner Life to be our guide and our “validation” then all the contrivances of that need for others drops away as do our attachments to others.
This of course does not mean that we love others less.
In fact we Love them more but no longer depend or even look for validation from them.
And once you get used to this dropping away you find the freedom makes you “very selective” about when, whom. where and for how long you are willing to be in the presence of others.
And our “selection” is guided by resonance moments and our love of creating and sharing rather than any need to “take” from another.
We are “building” (realising) our own Knowing and Loving of ourselves. Then everyone is included.